In my many years of dancing I have never been in a fight. Most dancers can’t say that.
Lately there’s been tension at the club : mostly because we only have about 7 girls on the roster, so most nites we have only 3 or 4 girls dancing (tiring!.)
This past Friday (or was it Saturday?) it was myself and two other girls. The “dance tally” is visible to anyone on the weekend… I did approximately 17 dances, the other two girls did 2.. combined. This, of course, earned me some nasty looks (even though they “love me”). I was talking to one of them at the end of the night and she mentioned that a couple of black guys she was sitting with were watching me on stage and said “THAT girl makes money?!”
Yes, I’m flat. Yes, I’m insanely skinny (but I’ve got a nice ass woot.) Yes, I am creepy flexible, and no I’m not even “THAT pretty” in the face.
So why did I make money and they didn’t? I enjoy my job. I smile on stage, I joke with customers, I never look bored, play with my cell phone and text on the floor, I never get “stupid drunk.” I’m charismatic and educated, I can talk about anything from astronomy to world of warcraft to archery to … well, you get the idea.
Ass hurts from sitting here. More later…. maybe :p
I kind of wish I had the same problem… 1.) shortage of dancers.
Hey,
I work at a strip club, but consider myself very nice. Do you think that this is a problem…sometimes I have trouble making conversation and “closing the deal.” I dont really talk to most of the girls, basically to stay out of conflicts. But I wanted to know if you had any tips
The best way to make conversation is to have interests and topics at hand — video games, archery, college, work, kids, anything… but in my experience after an inital ice breaker (for example, gently bump into them and then smile and laugh and jokingly accuse them of running into YOU) Then the conversation should take off – my experience , most people want to talk about themselves… but they might want to talk about more interesting, sexy parts of you.. example tell them about the long hot bath or shower you took before work.. or how hot it was last night and you had to sleep naked. Great conversatiion started for the right guys, and gets them in the “buy dances” mood.